I realize that trust is the most fragile piece of any relationship and is a lot harder to repair than to build in the first place. Please try?
I can only hope that moving forward you can find it possible to focus on the fond and great times you have shared and smile.
We haven't spoken in a while and I called... only to hear you are recovering from surgery. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Please touch base when you feel up to it.
If I could give you whatever I like for your birthday, I would give you 10 times the joy you have brought to my life.